domingo, 17 de maio de 2009

Life's too short..

Yeah that's it, life's too short for us to spend our time being angry at something, for us to be angry at each other... Don't waste your time with small things, because one day, you'll regret this lost moments...
1st lesson: forget
2nd lesson: forgive
When someone acts in a way that you were not expecting, in a way that leaves you sad or even angry, try to understand, put yourself in others shoes and then imagine what would you have done? That's it, maybe, you'll end up finding that you would probably act just in the same way as that person did, so just don't blame him/her for that... Forget it, learn how to forgive and move on. Remember, life's too short for you to lose those who really matter to you. Don't just waste your time killing yourself to walk away from that person. When you realise, it's gonna be too late to come back...
3rd lesson: explain yourself
4th lesson: listen to others
The worst thing to do is just leave an unsolved business. It's gonna hunt you down till the end of time. You'll always question yourself "what if I had just explained the facts?", "what if I had listened to what this person wanted to tell me so badly?"... The best thing to do is to talk to others, explain them your point of view, show them the facts and just hope that they understand what your telling them. It's not easy to do so, not explain and really not listen, especially when it is something that you definitly don't want to... But is always the best thing to do. You explain yourself and if the other person just doesn't want to understand, you follow your way knowing that there was nothing else that you could do to change this...
5th lesson: live your life like each day was your last day
6th lesson: don't make excuses
Don't leave for tomorrow what you can do today. Tomorrow you may not have the chance to do it, we never know what may happen. If you want to do it, do it today! If you want to say it, just say it today! Don't wait for a better timing, there's no "right timing" the timing is always going to be wrong, you'll always find a way of making up a couple of excuses to leave things for tomorrow. Just don't! Today is the day. Life's too short for you to postpone things!

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